听,有人在唱歌

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早上老赵打开电脑,播放了崔健的两首老歌《花房姑娘》和《一无所有》,我躺在床上看书,一下子被这歌词和旋律触动了,放下手机认真听了好久。虽然中学的时候就在哪儿听到过这些歌,但是从来都没有走心过,心里觉得这些老男人的歌喉实在不是我这种“伪文艺小清新”的菜,歌词不押韵,嗓音太苍凉。

中午等理发的时候听了一档由海外八零后制作的清谈广播节目《一期一会》,里面一期的背景乐是李宗盛的歌,虽然歌曲我都没听过,但是能清楚的辨别出是李宗盛的声音,听完有一种触电的感觉,回不过神来,反反复复听了好几遍,感觉听到要哭出来。一个人内心的绵延曲折竟然表达的如此到位。

李宗盛 《山丘》

想说却还没说的 还很多
攒着是因为想写成歌
让人轻轻地唱着 淡淡地记着
就算终于忘了 也值了

说不定我一生涓滴意念
侥幸汇成河
然后我俩各自一端
望着大河弯弯 终于敢放胆
嘻皮笑脸 面对 人生的难

也许我们从未成熟
还没能晓得 就快要老了
尽管心里活着的还是那个 年轻人

因为不安而频频回首
无知地索求 羞耻于求救
不知疲倦地翻越 每一个山丘

越过山丘 虽然已白了头
喋喋不休 时不我予的哀愁
还未如愿见着不朽
就把自己先搞丢

越过山丘 才发现无人等候
喋喋不休 再也唤不回温柔
为何记不得上一次是谁给的拥抱
在什么时候

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Competent Communicator Project 9- Be a Lifelong Learner(Persuade with Power)

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For the first twenty years or so of my life, I was told that main “job” is learning. The bulk of my time is spent in classrooms acquiring new knowledge. And then, after I step out of school, I was told that once finished my formal education, that my goal is to find a good job, buy a big apartment and earn more money. Have you ever thought about how odd that idea is? That only a quarter of our lives should be devoted to learning, and that the purpose of learning is just to get a job and make a living?

Actually, after graduation, I found the real world just began. I never stop learning in work. I keep learning about technical staff to perform my job, I keep learning communication skills and presentation skills to make myself be heard. I never stop learning in life either. I continue learning new things about myself, others and the world around me every single day. I used to think I would get wiser and smarter as I got older. But there are always new problems in life that I never thought I would had. And to me, learning is not just to make a living. It brings a lot more than money and job. As I learn new skills, I enjoy the positive feeling that comes with mastery, and I am more satisfied with myself. Learning opens new doors and broaden my horizon. And I also find myself with a renewed sense of purpose in life.

Now you may ask, what should we learn? The answer is you can learn anything. Compare your current skills, knowledge, and experience with your desired level of skills, knowledge, and experience. Identify the gap and draw up a learning plan to meet it. For example, each year I set 2-3 big learning goals. For example, this year my goals are to learn drawing for fun, to learn basic knowledge of law for my career, to learn Japanese for my next trip.

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DISC性格分类

20世纪20年代,美国心理学家威廉.莫尔顿.马斯顿创建了一个理论来解释人的情绪反应,他采用了四个他认为是非常典型的人格特质因子,即Dominance-支配,Influence-影响,Steady-稳健,以及Compliance-服从。而DISC,正是代表了这四个英文单词的首字母。我学到的一个比较方便记忆的中文翻译方法是D帝,I爱,S士,C思。

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(一)类型解释

Dominance-支配型/控制者

高D型特质的人可以称为是“天生的领袖”。
高D型特质的人关注的主要问题:你尊重我么
代表人物:电影《家有喜事》中余珠
象征劢物:老虎

在情感方面,D型人一个坚定果敢的人,酷好变化,喜欢控制,干劲十足,独立自主,超级自信。可是,由于比较不会顾及别人的感受,所以显得粗鲁、霸道、没有耐心、穷追不舍、不会放松。D型人不习惯与别人进行感情上的交流,不会恭维人,不喜欢眼泪,匮乏同情心。

在工作方面,D型人是一个务实和讲究效率的人,目标明确,眼光全面,组织力强,行动迅速,解决问题不过夜,果敢坚持到底,在反对声中成长。但是,因为过于强调结果, D型人往往容易忽视细节,处理问题不够细致。爱管人、喜欢支使他人的特点使得D型人能够带动团队进步,但也容易激起同事的反感。

在人际关系方面, D型人喜欢为别人做主,虽然这样能够帮助别人做出选择,但也容易让人有强迫感。由于关注自己的目标, D型人在乎的是别人的可利用价值。喜欢控制别人,不会说对不起。

描述性词语:积级进取、争强好胜、强势、爱追根究底、直截了当、主动的开拓者、坚持意见、自信、直率-一个字“帝”

Influence-活泼型/社交者

高I型的人通常是较为活泼的团队活动组织者。
高I型特质的人关注的主要问题:你爱我么
代表人物:电影《游龙戏凤》中的舒淇
象征劢物:孔雀

I型人是一个情感丰富而外露的人,由于性格活跃,爱说,爱讲故事,幽默,彩色记忆,能抓住听众,你常常是聚会的中心人物。是一个天才的演员,天真无邪,热情诚挚,喜欢送礼和接受礼物,看重人缘。情绪化的特点使得你容易兴奋,喜欢吹牛、说大话,天真,永远长不大,富有喜剧色彩。但是,似乎也很容易生气,爱抱怨,大嗓门,不成熟。

在工作方面,I型人是一个热情的推动者,总有新主意,色彩丰富,说干就干,能够鼓励和带领他人一起积极投入工作。可是,I型人似乎总是情绪决定一切,想哪儿说哪儿,而且说得多干得少,遇到困难容易失去信心,杂乱无章,做事不彻底,爱走神儿,爱找借口。喜欢轻松友好的环境,非常害怕被拒绝。

在人际关系方面,I型人容易交上朋友,朋友也多。关爱朋友,也被朋友称赞。爱当主角,爱受欢迎喜欢控制谈话内容。可是,喜欢即兴表演的特点使得I型人常常不能仔细理解别人,而且健忘多变。

描述性词语:有影响力、有说服力、友好、善于言辞、健谈、乐观积极、善于交际-一个字“爱”

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Competent Communicator Project 8-What is Intellectual Property (Visual Aids)

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Dear Toastmasters and distinguished guests, have you heard about the word 'intellectual property' or 'IP' ? (wait for response) Yeah, of course.

In today's knowledge economy, intellectual property is very important. Start-up companies use IP in order to protect themselves from large industrial competitors copying their products. Large companies also use IP in order to reap the benefits of their investments. If there were no IP protection, then competitors could offer the same products or service at a lower price because they didn't invest in research and development.

So what is IP anyway? IP refers to creation of the mind. Patents, Copyright, Trademarks, Trade secrets are different forms of IP.

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Today I would like to talk about the 4 major forms of IP. The first form of IP is patent. Patents are granted for technical inventions only. They must be applied for at a patent office. (Patent applications are examined in a process that may result in the refusal or grant of a patent.) Patents normally last for a maximum of 20 years from the date of filing.

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Maybe some of you are familiar with Gorilla Glass, which is the best-selling product of Corning. Corning has filed many patents on gorilla glass, including the product, the process, the equipment and the use of the product. It brought billions of dollars revenue for Corning last year.

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元旦假期计划,完成了么?

元旦假期给自己规划了三个小目标:
1,读一本书
2,看一部电影
3,去一个没去过的地方
4,学几句日常日语

实际完成情况:
1,读一本书-看完了《大学之路(上)》;还花半个多小时看完了几米的漫画《我不是完美的小孩》,非常非常有童趣,几米的水准之作:

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2,看一部电影-《星际穿越》,看完森森的怀疑我有没有学过物理,有没有参加过全国物理奥林匹克竞赛,看完电影又研究了几篇影评,才发出soga的感慨。。

3,去一个没去过的地方-龙博物馆,非常好的美术馆,馆内馆外都很空旷,小朋友好喜欢(其实是喜欢跑来跑去),这次画展的主题是“想象突破现实”,看到了奈良美智草间弥生的真迹,其他的画家一个都没听过。。

才知道奈良美智竟然是个男人!第一次接触他笔下的小女孩是读书的时候在一个小店看到了美智小女孩项链,画中的小女孩眼神耐人寻味,有点邪恶,有点挑畔,有点愤世嫉俗,非常喜欢,戴了很久之后才知道她是那个有名的美智女孩;

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